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5 gay-friendly Mediterranean destinations they don’t tell you about

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The ultimate guide to Mediterranean destinations that are gay-friendly

Not every LGBTQ+ traveller is looking for rainbow flags and roaring Pride parades. Sometimes the best places are the quiet ones – the towns that don’t advertise themselves as “gay destinations” but have long offered space, safety and ease to those in the know. Across the Mediterranean, there’s a growing patchwork of charming coastal towns and historic hilltop villages where queer travellers feel right at home, without the gloss or the performance. Think sleepy seaside villages with liberal streaks, artistic hideaways that attract a creative crowd and old towns where locals couldn’t care less who you’re holding hands with. Grab your passport and let us steer you toward these welcoming Mediterranean gems.

Top photography courtesy of María de la O

Gallipoli

Come high summer, Gallipoli transforms. This little town on the Ionian coast has been Italy’s unofficial gay beach escape since the ’90s and it still pulls a magnetic crowd from across the country. Spend the day at Samsara Beach, where the vibe is part Berlin club, part Italian holiday camp, then head into the baroque old town for grilled octopus and limoncello under string lights. The town hosts Puglia’s biggest Pride event yet remains refreshingly uncommercial. Most people stay in family-run guesthouses or affordable Airbnbs hidden in limestone alleys and nights usually end at Picador or Riobo, two iconic beach clubs with no dress code and no pretence. It’s wild in the best way – but it’s also kind. Gallipoli doesn’t care what you wear or who you’re dancing with. It just wants you to have a good time.

Hydra

Hydra has no cars, no airport and no massive resorts – and that’s exactly why it’s remained one of Greece’s most discreetly queer-friendly islands. Artists, actors and expats have been escaping here since the 1960s, drawn by its stark beauty and anything-goes attitude. Leonard Cohen bought a house here in 1960 and his queer circle of creatives helped shape the island’s laidback allure. These days, there’s still an unspoken freedom to the place. Couples stroll the stone paths hand in hand without second glances. Local favourite Hydronetta draws a casual, mixed crowd for cliffside cocktails and late afternoon swims, while beach clubs like Castello cater to a stylish, open-minded set. It’s not a scene – it’s a vibe. And it’s all the better for it. Hydra’s charm lies in its simplicity – sun, sea and a rare sense of privacy, all washed in Cycladic light.

Kotor Bay

Montenegro isn’t the first place that comes to mind when you think of LGBTQ+ travel – but that’s precisely the appeal. Kotor Bay, a fjord-like inlet with mediaeval towns and still, silver-blue water, isn’t trying to sell anything. It simply is. And that makes it surprisingly comfortable. The town of Kotor itself, with its Venetian palazzos and Gothic churches, has a gentle, bohemian rhythm. LGBTQ+ travellers tend to stay in Perast or Prčanj, where converted stone villas open onto private jetties and the days melt into long swims and slow dinners. There’s no official gay scene, but the hospitality is warm and locals are used to an international crowd. Kotor Bay doesn’t pretend to be something it’s not. But if you’re looking for calm, charm and zero side-eye, it’s a soft place to land.

Noto and Ragusa

Sicily’s southeast is known for its flamboyant architecture, golden light and long lunches – and these twin towns have built reputations as open, design-savvy and LGBTQ+ friendly corners of the island. Noto, with its honey-hued churches and street-side aperitivi, draws a stylish, Milanese crowd, many of whom are gay creatives looking for a slower rhythm. The same goes for Ragusa, especially Ragusa Ibla, where Baroque meets boho and the mood is light, inclusive and curious. Boutique hotels like Seven Rooms Villadorata or Eremo della Giubiliana cater to a design-conscious clientele and even traditional spots like Ristorante Duomo (two Michelin stars) are known for being discreet and welcoming. Don’t expect rainbow flags or dedicated queer bars – just a warm, local openness and a strong sense of place.

Collioure

Just a few kilometres from the Spanish border, Collioure in France has long been a haven for outsiders, artists and those who never quite fit the mould. Matisse and Derain were captivated by its surreal light and colourful houses and that same spirit still runs through the town’s café terraces, art galleries and slow beaches. While there’s no overt gay scene here, there doesn’t need to be – this is the kind of place where queerness isn’t unusual, it’s just part of the mosaic. You’ll see couples reading paperbacks by the pebbly beach, sipping wine at a table for two or exploring galleries hand in hand. Collioure’s allure isn’t just in its postcard setting – it’s in how easy it is to just be. And when that’s all you’re looking for, it’s perfect.